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I’m a bad guy

3 May 21, 2009, Tagged ,

I can’t actually say what made me bad and angry because as far as I could realise, my way of thinking is the result of a very complex series of consequences which are too personal to discuss on a public blog. Therefore, since I can’t tell you why I am bad, I am going to tell you how my evil attitude is present in my (your?) daily routine.

I used to be the kind of guy who gave a second chance. Not only don’t I agree with second chances anymore but I have started becoming even more squemish with giving a first chance. I guess it’s almost one year now since I started to agree with the proverb “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me” and that may have altered my way of thinking in a very serious way. I don’t know about you, but once you realise that only 1% of the entire population deserves a second chance, why give it to them while taking the risk of that person being among the other 99% ?

Another problem I used to have sometime ago was with some people that I used to work with. Some of them came up with some ideas which weren’t very intelligent to say the least. I also tried to present this fact to them in a very pleasant manner. Well, it worked well for the past 5 years, why wouldn’t I have tried it? Ehh, life isn’t that simple. Sometimes, people just don’t want to accept the fact that their idea sucks. I had to do a complete twist of attitude and be frank with everyone. Although at first I had the feeling like I am hurting their feelings, you would be surprised but it wasn’t anything like this: they weren’t hurt, accepted my opinion and went further into developing another idea. The next idea usually sucked as well, but that is not the point…

Those are just two samples of why and how I have decided to change my attitude towards the people I know. If you felt offended or touched by this post, keep in mind that it is very likely that I didn’t talk about you. Well, if I actually talked about you, I am sorry, but you have to know why I am so pissed off sometimes.


3 Comments to I’m a bad guy

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  1. May 22, 2009 at 12:43 pm | Permalink

    Antisocial Victor is antisocial…

    It’s OK to be pissed off and selective regarding friends as well as speaking your mind especially when it concerns ideas that others try to implement and are totally shitty (we just know they’ll come to us to lament when they fail because we encouraged them; that is not to say that you mustn’t support and encourage people who deserve it) – just do it in a nice manner. But don’t let this become a habit as you might miss out on many nice things.


  2. May 28, 2009 at 3:13 am | Permalink

    hai sa vorbim in romana. da, asa e cu 1% si 99%. eu intotdeauna am vrut sa ma consider printre cei 1%care primesc a doua sansa. stii de ce. si inca o astept:)


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