Of course you miss it, whatever it is that you miss. Frankly, unless you’re a friend of mine, I only care what you miss for scientific purposes(you know, statistics and stuff like that).

However, whatever you miss, let’s try to make you feel better, shall we? First of all, don’t get a cold heart thinking about the past. Whatever was and happened, just did and you should be happy for that. Who knows how much shittier your life might have been if you hadn’t encountered that person or situation. Second, keep in mind that humans work by the following principle: You only realize how valuable something/someone is to you until the moment you are actually faced with losing it/him/her. No, no matter what you had done, you couldn’t have made everything better.

As someone told me a few months ago, whatever is supposed to happen will happen no matter what. Therefore, stop crying your heart out for something that will never be the same again unless you invent a time machine. Kitty once shared a link on her blog with a beautiful article on this topic and a phrase got stuck in mind ever since: “You can go back to people and places but you can never go back to the exact circumstances”. That sentence is valid for absolutely any situation that I have encountered in my life and it has actually helped me get over.. something.

Therefore, guys, smile. I know it’s hard to concentrate and to lose the subjective approach towards life but just keep in mind that “it will all be ok in the end. If it’s not ok, it’s not the end” (© DeeDee).